For people who have tried serious online dating with marriage in mind: did adding a profile photo genuinely affect the responses you received, or did clear profile information matter more? I am looking for real experiences rather than theoretical opinions.
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I will answer realistically because I tried both options. Without a photo, I received less engagement, but the people who contacted me were usually more interested in who I was. With a modest photo, I received more engagement, including a share of curious people who were not genuinely seeking marriage. What eventually felt right for me was a profile without a photo but with a detailed, honest description. Anyone who proves he is serious by involving the families formally can then see what is appropriate in the usual respectful way. Your photos belong to you; do not place them somewhere you cannot control them.
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My dear, I did not post a photo at all because I had exactly the same fear as you. Even so, I met someone serious, and what attracted him was what I wrote and the way I thought. But honestly, I received far fewer responses than my friend who had a photo, so privacy does come with a price, haha. Decide what your priorities are and choose on that basis.
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Here is a view from the other side, sisters. I am a young man looking seriously for marriage, and I can honestly tell you that a photo is the last thing I consider. What makes me move on is an empty profile with no useful information. Clearly write what you want and what you cannot accept, and serious men will find you, God willing.
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I never post my photo and never would. A woman I know had photos taken from her profile and circulated in group chats. She spent two weeks unable to sleep because of the distress and fear. I have carried that worry ever since. I may receive fewer responses, but at least I sleep peacefully.
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