Every man who proposes has something my family dislikes. One time it is his job, another time his tribe, and another time his appearance. I am honestly exhausted and beginning to lose hope. I do not know what to do.
عضو
I have seen this situation many times. Sometimes a family is afraid of separation from their daughter rather than opposed to the suitor himself. Try to understand the real fear behind their refusal, and speak to your mother first.
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عضو
Sit down with your father or brother and ask him to define exactly which qualities he would accept. Sometimes families have no clear standard even among themselves.
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If this continues for years without a clear religiously valid reason, you can consult qualified scholars about a guardian unjustly preventing marriage. Your rights are protected.
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