I have been divorced for three years, and a new suitor has approached me. I do not know which questions I should ask, and my family has no experience with second marriages.
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If he has children, ask about his relationship with them and his financial responsibilities. His practical and emotional commitments to his first children will directly affect your life together.
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Ask him directly why his first marriage ended and listen to how he speaks about it. The way he talks about his former wife tells you a great deal about his character.
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From my experience, ask him exactly what he expects from you and what he offers in return. A second marriage succeeds when both people are clear from the beginning rather than living on assumptions.
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