My first marriage ended in divorce because of my former husband. Now a serious suitor has approached me and seems like a good person, but I feel a fear I cannot explain. I do not want to make the wrong choice again.
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Fear is normal, but do not let it take a suitable opportunity away from you. Pay close attention to your communication and observe how he treats you and others.
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Ask God for guidance and pray istikhara. If you feel at ease with him and you are compatible on the important matters, there may be no specific reason to fear. Many divorced women share this kind of anxiety.
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عضو
Being afraid that the pain will repeat itself is completely normal. But rejecting every suitor because of one past experience would punish you for what happened. Trust that God does not let sincere effort go to waste.
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