Does a Long Engagement Help a Relationship or Harm It?
From real experience, does a long engagement help a couple understand their compatibility, or does it create more harm and pressure?
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More than a year and a half is harmful. Expectations and pressures build up, while you do not necessarily learn much more about the person than you did in the first few months.
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I was engaged for three years, and it ended with a broken heart. A long period can reveal compatibility, but it also creates social pressure that not everyone can bear.
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