Widows and Divorced Women

I Am Divorced with Children. When and How Should I Tell a Potential Husband?

I divorced two years ago and have two children. I do not want to hide that, but I am afraid a man will judge me before getting to know me. When and how should I tell him?

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Anonymous community member

State it clearly in your profile on the platform. That will spare you conversations that were never going anywhere.

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عضو

Say it in the first message. Anyone who cannot accept it can leave, and anyone who remains does so with open eyes. Honesty at the beginning saves you a great deal of pain later.

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I married a divorced woman with a son, and it has been the best marriage of my life. The right man does not see children as a burden; he sees them as a responsibility he is honoured to carry. Be open from the beginning, and you lose nothing.

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