My husband raised the subject respectfully and said he would do nothing without my agreement. I do not know how I feel. I am not angry, but I am afraid I will regret refusing and equally afraid I will regret agreeing. What have others experienced?
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I went through the same situation. I took two months before answering. In the end, I said no, and my husband respected my decision. Take your time and do not rush.
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A man who raises the subject respectfully is better than one who marries in secret. But you need to understand yourself: can you live with this in practice, not only accept the idea in theory?
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Have a dedicated conversation and ask him one direct question: why? His answer will tell you a great deal about his intention and his character.
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