My Fiancé Has Avoided Setting a Wedding Date for More Than a Year

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I have been engaged for one year and eight months, and we are making no progress. Every time we agree on a date, he gives a new excuse. My family has begun putting pressure on me, and I am honestly exhausted. Is this normal delay or a warning sign?

Anonymous community member · Answer

Set a final date and state it clearly. That is not a threat; it is a reasonable boundary. A serious person takes action when he understands that he may lose you.

عضو · Answer

One year and eight months is a long time. If he has no clear and convincing reason, this is no longer merely a delay; it is a message.

My Fiancé Has Avoided Setting a Wedding Date for More Than a Year

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