We have been married for a year and a half. Everything seemed fine before the wedding, but afterwards we discovered differences we did not expect. He prefers peace and quiet, while I enjoy activity, travel and friends. It is not a major crisis, but it has exhausted us.
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Try a session with a family counsellor—not because you have a major crisis, but because practical tools can help.
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We went through the same thing. The difference itself is not the problem; the problem begins when each person tries to change the other. Acceptance is easier than forced change.
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This is completely normal. Give each person independent time without guilt, while protecting a regular period of shared time together.
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