Polygamy

What Do You Think About a Second Marriage When the First Wife Is Chronically Ill and Cannot Fulfil Her Usual Responsibilities?

My wife has had a chronic illness for three years; may God heal her. I have continued to care for her, but our married life has become difficult. I am considering a second marriage, yet I am afraid of how it could affect her emotionally. What do you think?

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I believe that, in a situation like this, you should consult medical and mental-health professionals before making a decision. Your wife deserves to be part of the discussion, however difficult it may be.

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This is an extremely sensitive matter. Transparency with your wife is the most important thing. If you decide to proceed, tell her yourself before anyone else does.

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May God heal her and restore her health. A second marriage is religiously permitted for you, but remember that complete fairness is difficult, especially in emotional matters.

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